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Roger Marsh: In Ephesians Chapter 5, Paul tasks husbands with the responsibility to be the spiritual leader in the household. However, many men today are either unable or unwilling to step into this position. You're listening to Family Talk, a production of the James Dobson Family Institute. I'm Roger Marsh, along with your host, psychologist and best-selling author Dr. James Dobson.<br />
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In a few minutes we will conclude Dr. Dobson's classic conversation with Lee and Leslie Strobel. Over the past couple of programs, they've been sharing how their marriage endured spiritual imbalance after Leslie became a Christian and Lee wasn't. Today the Strobel's address how couples can support and promote each other's spiritual walk.<br />
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Now to quickly remind you about our guests, Lee Strobel is a recognized Christian apologist, author and speaker. He previously worked at the Chicago tribune where he was a decorated investigative journalist. Lee is also a New York Times best-selling author with over 10 million copies of his books sold. Lee and his wife Leslie co-authored the book 'Spiritual Mismatch' which is what we're talking about on today's program.<br />
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Okay here now is the conclusion of this conversation with Dr. James Dobson on this edition of Family Talk.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: Well Lee and Leslie we were talking off microphone about something that I want to let our listeners hear. About a cultural phenomenon. The fact that women don't like to eat alone, they're kind of embarrassed if they're not in the company of a man. I know that frustrates the feminist but I understand why.<br />
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And then when that's applied to a marriage that is unequally yoked, a woman may go to church alone but not feel totally comfortable there.<br />
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Leslie Strobel: Right.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: Have you observed that?<br />
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Leslie Strobel: Absolutely. Church is a family oriented place and you tend to think of families going to church. I remember one time I went, Lee wasn't going with me and I got the kids in the Sunday school and I would go into the sanctuary and kind of look around for another woman sitting alone just so I might be with someone who would relate.<br />
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And so this one time I sat down next to this lady and we started talking a little bit and she asked where my husband was, was he taking the kids to the Sunday School and I said, "Oh no, he doesn't come with me." And I could see her whole demeanor change and she just sort of went, "Oh." And she didn't quite know how to respond and in a minute her husband arrived, he had been an usher or something and serving and sat down next to her. And they just didn't ever pay much attention to me after that.<br />
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And at the time I couldn't decide if it was my own uncomfortable feelings that were projecting maybe something different, but I had talked to women in the past about that, that there is a little bit of a bias often times in churches, where you do expect families to be a part and when there's someone who's either single or married but her husband isn't with her, that that sometimes causes them not quite knowing how to handle you.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: And Leslie what a shame that is because you were desperately in need of support and counsel and scripture and love and acceptance, especially in a church.<br />
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Leslie Strobel: And this was at a time before I was involved in a Bible Study, I was looking for Christian women just to have someone in my life.<br />
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Lee Strobel: It's a great reminder for those who are listening that are Christians and you know they're saying, "Well does this really relate to me because I am married to a believer?" Well one thing you can do is reach out to women and men who are unequally yoked. And when you encounter them at church to be sensitive to that and to realize that they're going through very difficult times.<br />
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It's a tension filled time in their marriage, they're feeling alone, they're feeling vulnerable and what a great time for us as believers to enfold them and to encourage them and to pray for them and with them. So it'd be a ministry for everybody who is listening to say, "Well I can at least do that."<br />
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Dr. Dobson: You know I used to teach a very large Sunday School class of young adults, young married couples, and it used to really bother me that people would come to the church who were visitors and I would watch them come in alone and sit down, and everybody would be, before the service started, talking with their friends, they hadn't seen them in a week or two, and leave these people standing out there alone.<br />
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And we had 400 people that came through that class in one year and I remember saying, those people, many of them, came here and gave you one chance to say that we need you here. They didn't come because of me, they didn't come because of the pastor, they didn't come because of the theology of the church, they didn't come because of location. They came saying, "Is this a place where I would be accepted? And can we make some friends here? Would we be comfortable here?" And then you go out there and talk to your friends and leave these people standing there, I used to rail at my class over that. Because we lost some of those people and they never came back.<br />
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Lee Strobel: What a ministry we can all have to just do that simple thing, just be, enfold people emotionally and just say, "You know what, I'm sorry your husband doesn't come with you but let me just pray for you and encourage you."<br />
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Dr. Dobson: Well, we have had two programs with you folks. I feel so strongly about what you've been saying, it's really bed rock material for Christian families.<br />
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Lee Strobel: It's almost a different way of being unequally yoked, you're yoked to someone who is not as spiritually mature, who's lagging behind, I'd say three things about that. Number one, you have to ask yourself the question, could it be that my spouse is not really a believer? You have to ask that question. If they have no interest in growth spiritually, you don't see a difference in their character and values, if they're not going through a process of becoming more Christ like over time.<br />
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You have to ask yourself, they may say the right things and believe the right things but John 1:12 says, "But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God even to those who believed in His name." Believing in and of itself is not enough. There has to be a point in time where we receive Jesus Christ as our Lord and savior. We receive this free gift of forgiveness and eternal life that He purchased when He died on the cross as our substitute to pay for all of our wrong doing, past, present and future.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: Which changes everything.<br />
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Lee Strobel: That changes everything. And we have to ask, could it be that my spouse is lagging because they're not really a born again believer? And so sometimes I'll use that verse as a diagnostic and you get in a conversation, and you say, "that verse forms an equation of what it means to become a believer, believe plus receive equals become. Honey, I'm concerned. I don't see a lot of change in you, I don't see a desire to grow in your relationship with Christ, I just want to raise the question &mdash; "<br />
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Dr. Dobson: To which he says, "You're judging me."<br />
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Lee Strobel: You know what, it could be, but you know you've planted a piece of sand in his shoe and it's going to bug him now because you've raised the question and he may grouse and he may react negatively but you know what? I bet there's something in his spirit that eventually he's going to say, "You know what, she's right, I need to get serious here and I really need to give my life to Christ."<br />
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So that's one thing I'd say. The other thing I'd say is, every church is not for every person. And you may be in a church that you are doing great spiritually and you got friends and you really sync up with the pastor and this is a wonderful community for you, it may not be ideal for your spouse.<br />
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And you know what, I think sometimes you have to say, "Could it be because this church culture does not work well with where my spouse is coming from?" And it's okay to maybe say, "You know we need to find a church where we both can flourish." And you know I'd raise that question as well. And the other thing I'd say is, resist the temptation first to fault find, don't look down your nose at your spouse and shame them for not being spiritually more mature because that's only going to be a negative.<br />
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The other thing is, don't project yourself onto your spouse. Because you may think that being a Christian is how I behave, you know. I'm an extrovert and I serve over here and I teach this class and I do these things, that's what Christians do because hey I'm a Christian, that's what I do. But my spouse is different, maybe my spouse is introverted.<br />
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Maybe they're more intellectual, maybe they grow more in a quiet moment with God where they're reading scripture and God is feeding them through that experience and they're learning about history and archeology and that feeds them. And you think, well, they're not like me so they're not growing the same rate. Well, they may be growing in a different way. And we're all a little bit different, the way we grow in Christ.<br />
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And so we got to cut each other some slack and say maybe it's just because my spouse ain't me, maybe that's the problem.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: But on the other hand, Leslie, I know that you have, in recent years, done a lot of one on one mentoring of women. Are you hearing the frustration we were talking about of women whose husbands who will not accept spiritual leadership. They may not even question his commitment to Christ, but those men may not step up and say, "Let's have our devotions tonight, let's pray before we go to bed. Or let's take this to the Lord. Or let's give of our resources."<br />
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And they won't provide spiritual leadership for the children, which frustrates them too, don't you hear that a lot?<br />
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Leslie Strobel: Exactly, absolutely. And I think that's a huge problem and I don't know exactly, I think what Lee has said is correct that you have to gently talk to your husband about that and just see if they can understand the necessity and how God calls men to be head of the home. And if you can point out how enriching that would be for children and for the whole family to have them do that, I believe men would be willing to step up and try it.<br />
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Lee Strobel: It could be too that the church you're in is not teaching this. You go to some churches and they're staying away from that. This is all gender equality, no difference between men and women and they bought in to a lot of this cultural stuff and they don't emphasize the role of the man in the marriage relationship, in the family relationship.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: What is his role, Lee?<br />
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Lee Strobel: Well he is the spiritual leader of the home and -<br />
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Dr. Dobson: What does that mean?<br />
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Lee Strobel: Well it means that he takes the lead in seeing to it that the entire family is nurtured spiritually. And it grows together in a Christ-like direction. And that doesn't mean you have to be a pastor or seminary trained, it doesn't mean you have to be heavy handed and boss people around, but it means you have a father's heart towards your spouse and towards your children to say, "I want to be like a shepherd that helps lead them into a deeper relationship with Christ and spiritual growth."<br />
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Dr. Dobson: I was bating you a little bit there because I believe exactly what you believe.<br />
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Lee Strobel: Yeah and I was taught this by a very wise teacher once. He said, "Have you ever noticed how guys who want to get married and want to settle down, want to get the job done?" And they will, and I don't mean intentionally deceive people, but they will say to the girl they want to date who's a Christian, "Oh, of course I'm a Christian, oh yeah of course I believe in God, oh yeah me too."&nbsp;<br />
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And they will kind of gloss, because they don't understand the importance here. They'll gloss over this stuff and they're trying to win this woman who they want to marry. And they will play games. And there are women who think that the, and sometimes the women will be in a position where they're not looking very deeply because they're in love with this guy, they like this guy, they don't want to find what they're afraid they're going to find.<br />
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So they kind of gloss it over too. And then they get married and they find out, this guy didn't want to go to church anymore, he doesn't have any interest in growing spiritually, and you know what, he wasn't a believer in the first place. But they sort of fooled each other in the process. So I think the one thing that Christian men and women, young men and women ought to do is decide now.<br />
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Do not become unequally yoked, that's what the Bible teaches, that's what God's word says, therefore I'm going to decide now, I'm not going to date someone who is not a committed follower of Jesus. Because whenever you date, it's a process, it's leading somewhere and you're going to get more emotionally entangled and you're going to go deeper with this other person and it's going to take you down a path and pretty soon if you allow yourself to date a non-believer, pretty soon you're going to go down the path too far, you're going to be in love and you're not going to want to pull out.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: There is this great, powerful attraction between them. And you look for rationalizations for doing what you desperately want to do especially if you're needy and you're longing for marriage like many singles do. They're looking for that person.<br />
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Lee Strobel: One of the things that we do in our book 'Surviving Spiritual Mismatch' is we try to help people, women especially, diagnose, as best they can, is this guy that I want to date really a believer? Look past what he claims, look past, and we have 15 questions that you can ask and I won't go through them all but I'll go through a few of them.<br />
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First of all, can he describe a specific time or era during which he received Christ's gift of eternal life? If he were put on trial on a charge of being a Christian, would there be enough evidence to convict him? When he talks about the future, does he mention God, is there room for God? What does he choose to feed his mind? Where does the compass of his heart naturally point?<br />
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Who does he spend time with? You know, birds of a feather flock together, who are his friends? Are they believers? Does he possess humility? Is he honest about the little things in life. When you're at a restaurant and they give you the wrong check and it's $50 less than your check, does he quick, pay the check and get out and cheat the restaurant? Or does he do the right things about the little things in life?&nbsp;<br />
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Does he take responsibility for his actions? Does he care about people who don't know about Christ? Has he ever expressed an interest in that? Does he pray? Is he willing to postpone immediate gratification so that greater satisfaction can come in the future?<br />
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Dr. Dobson: Let me add one.<br />
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Lee Strobel: Yeah.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: Is there any evidence of addictive behavior?<br />
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Lee Strobel: Oh, that's a good one.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: You're dating somebody who is a heavy drinker or you get little indication of vulnerability to pornography or to gambling or other things, run, don't walk, run away from him because he's trouble on the hoof.<br />
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Lee Strobel: Yeah, absolutely. How many times have, as a pastor, you sat with people who come in and their lives are absolutely wrecked because of a spouse who has an addictive personality, who has fallen into one of his traps? It's so sad, you're right to discern, is there any evidence of that in the relationship?<br />
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I think we've kind of hinted this, sometimes it's a two way street, it's the guys who want to maybe implicitly deceive someone to thinking they're something they're not, but it's also the women who will say I'm going to overlook stuff because I want this guy, I like this guy. This guy is going to be a doctor someday, he's going to be successful and he treats me well, he's a nice guy.<br />
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Well you know what? There are nice guys who are headed for hell. And there are nice guys who are not going to lead their family in a godly direction. You know? Are they committed followers of Christ, do you see growth in their life? What do they talk about? Do they ever, when they talk about imagining how your life might be together and get married someday, does God ever come up?<br />
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Do they ever express an interest in spiritual matters unless you press them? Those are tough questions but boy, you'll regret it if you don't ask them.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: Here's another one, are you going with somebody? Maybe you're a woman and going with a man who's trying to talk you into going to bed before marriage.<br />
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Lee Strobel: Well there's, exactly ...<br />
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Dr. Dobson: I mean talk about a red flag because if he'll do that with you, he'll do it with somebody else later on.<br />
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Lee Strobel: Absolutely. Are his actions consistent with scripture or are they, is he cutting corners? Is he drinking heavily, is he suggesting premarital sex? Is he pushing you on things that you know aren't right? Those are all signals. And they could be little things, it could be just maybe some transgressions or some lines of intimacy short of actually going to bed together.<br />
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But, you know, he's going too far too fast and you go, woah, woah, woah, what's this guy really interested in here? We just have to open our eyes and I think for those listening it's like, you know, if you're a guy, and you're single, you know what the best thing you can do for your life and your future marriage is to grow in your relationship with Christ, to become spiritually mature.<br />
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I mean make that your number one value and you know what, you will find the right woman. Because you're going to be hanging out in the right places, and you're going to be meeting the right people and God is going to arrange, when you're ready, for the right person to be there for you. And don't put yourself in a position, if you make the decision now, I am not going to do this, then when you're in the midst, your hormones are pumping and you're liking this guy and you're feeling drawn to and everything, then you're not making the decision.<br />
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I already made this decision in the cool, the light of scripture and I'm going to live by it.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: We have said several times in the course of the programs that we've done, that the principles that you taught in your book and that you've discussed with us here, come out of scripture but we haven't documented that.<br />
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Lee Strobel: Yeah.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: And there is scripture in both 1 Corinthians 7 and in 2 Corinthians 6 that are relevant to what we're talking about. Would you share those scriptures with us?<br />
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Lee Strobel: Yeah in 1 Corinthians it says specifically that if your spouse is not a believer but they're willing to remain married, then you should remain married. So having a non-believing spouse is not an excuse to say, okay I'm heading for divorce court.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: Unless there's infidelity.<br />
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Lee Strobel: Yeah then it raises other questions, infidelity. Or, the scripture says, if they leave then you should let them go. Then 2 Corinthians 6:14-16 talk about being unequally yoked. And what that means is that we should not be in a relationship with a non-believer, like a marriage, because of all of the things we kind of talk about in our book, all of the negative fallout that will happen in your marriage if you are unequally yoked, if you're married to a non-believer.<br />
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So, scripture specifically says, do not be married to an unbeliever. And there's one other relevant passage in 1 Peter 3:1-2 which talks about that wives, when you have a non-believing spouse, they're going to be won over by your behavior. By your purity and reverence in your life. That was Leslie, I mean, and that was a great example I think in her life of someone who lived a pure and a reverent life, being like a magnet for the non-believer.<br />
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Now it wasn't a magnet without problems, in other words, I came kicking and screaming in many ways, but it was a magnet none the less. And I think you know again, scripture is so wise here in saying, it's not always the words that are going to do it, it's the attitude, it's the behavior, it's the purity of your life, it's your devotion to Christ that are going to eventually be attractive to the non-believer.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: Well the title of the book is 'Surviving a Spiritual Mismatch in Marriage.' It is an outstanding book and you've heard that the last three days. We've been talking about this content and there's a lot more here that we didn't get to. And I appreciate so much you all being with us for these three days. And this -<br />
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Lee Strobel: Our pleasure.<br />
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Leslie Strobel: Thanks for having us.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: This has been very uplifting to me, there's content here that I wanted to get across to our listeners and you've done it today. Leslie, thank you for being the Godly woman you are, thank you for hanging in there with this jerk until he found the Lord and became a spiritual leader to the whole Christian community. I mean it's amazing, you must be, again, shocked how God is using him.<br />
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Leslie Strobel: It's quite a ride we've had, it's been a lot of fun.<br />
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Lee Strobel: She used to pray, "I just want him to go to church with me."<br />
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Leslie Strobel: That's right.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: Lee you're writing a novel, I don't have time to talk about it, but will you come back and talk about it?<br />
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Lee Strobel: I'd love to, absolutely.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: All right, let's do it. And glad to have you in the neighborhood and look forward to maybe having dinner together some time.<br />
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Lee Strobel: Yeah! That would be wonderful.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: Okay.<br />
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Dr. Dobson: Last year there were close to 2.5 million divorces in the United States. And part of the problem is the tendency for young men and women to marry virtual strangers. Oh, I know a typical couple talks for countless hours before the courtship period, and they believe they know each other, but a dating relationship is designed to conceal information, not reveal it.<br />
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Some couples discover through this process that they have major problems that hadn't surfaced until then and they agree to either postpone or call off the wedding. Others work through their conflicts and proceed toward marriage with increased confidence. Premarital counseling is the key. If the tragedy of divorce could be reduced by even five percent, it would certainly be worth the effort.<br />
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